I received this question from Danielle:

“How long should I wait to remove my departed pet’s belongings? It feels like a betrayal to move her toys and beds, and to donate the food.

I know they no longer need these items, but it’s a nice and also bittersweet reminder of them.”

MY ANSWER:

There is no set time frame for moving or donating those items.

This is such a personal choice, depending on your beliefs and what makes you feel good. The animals tell me they visit their favorite spots, whether or not their bed or blanket is still there. They can play with a virtual toy in their afterlife. It doesn’t seem to matter as much to them as it does to us.

If it makes you feel better to donate items, then do so. If you feel keeping them in place feels right, then by all means, keep them. Follow your heart. If you donate items too soon, you may regret it later when you wish you had kept them as a special memento, or you adopt a new pet who may enjoy those items.

Since our companions benefit most when we are happy, emotionally balanced, and grateful, follow the path that leads you there.

If you have a GENERAL QUESTION, post it in the comments below or email to karen@karenanderson.net with GENERAL QUESTION in Subject Line

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Karen is an award-winning animal communicator and best-selling author who specializes in pet loss and the afterlife. She has documented her journey with her heartwarming and inspirational books, The Pet I Can’t Forget, The Amazing Afterlife of Animals and Hear All Creatures.

 

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Karen is the CEO and founder of Painted Rain Ranch Animal Sanctuary a non-profit charity that serves as a final refuge for elderly, special needs, and abandoned companion animals. Karen saves the pets no one else wants on her 30-acre farm in the Inland Pacific Northwest. Proceeds from Karen’s books and coaching benefit the animals at the sanctuary.

 

 

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